4. The fourth layer are words that she uses to convey what she meant to say.

The words she uses can be very misleading to what she means to say, her perspective and to the actual true meaning.

Example: she said “I thought we weren’t going to have sex” taken as face value implies that she doesn’t want to have sex with you. Her words are not good at conveying her intentions and desires, so this leaves guys confused.

5. The fifth layer is what she didn’t say.

Guys can be so focused on what she DID say that they fail to pay attention to what was NOT said - which leaves clues to the reality of the situation.

Imagine this: her pants are down, and you took out a condom. She says “I thought we weren’t going to have sex”. She didn’t say “NO!” You should have put on the condom and fucked her hard because complaining about getting FUCKED is not the same as saying “I don’t want to have sex with you.” Sometimes women give token resistance because they get TURNED ON by the man being aggressive. Needless to say, if she did explicitly says “no” or “stop” then don’t proceed and get a rape charge.

6. The final layer is that which you understand her words meant about her intention, her perspective of the True Meaning, and what you concluded the true meaning was based on observations/deductions.

For clueless guys playing a broken game of telephone, it’s no wonder that they misinterpret the true meaning of the situation and behave in ineffective ways towards women.

Example: the guy thought her words meant “I don’t want to have sex with you”, so he ended the sexual interaction - without tapping into his killer instinct to fuck close and seal the deal.

SUMMARY OF THE 6 LAYERS OF COMMUNICATION

• Layer 1: She desires to fuck. This is clear by her actions. She went into the bathroom and took off her pants.

• Layer 2: She mistakenly thinks she doesn’t desire a good fuck because her self-denial is preventing her from seeing the truth. However, even if she thinks sex with you is “wrong” or “sinful”, she still went into the bathroom with you and isn’t walking away because HER BODY CRAVES THE EXCITEMENT/PLEASURE YOUR DICK PROVIDES - hijacking control of her actions.

• Layer 3: Her intention is to say something to make herself feel less slutty/guilty by taking away (from herself) the responsibility about what is going to happen.

• Layer 4: She complains by saying “I thought we weren’t going to have sex” - giving herself catharsis in the process.

• Layer 5: She didn’t say “NO”, “Lets not have sex”, or “Stop”. This gives passive permission. This also conveys an unconscious desire to be “swept away” in the moment by Alpha Male Leader.

• Layer 6: The guy takes her words at face value and doesn’t give her the physical value that her body craved. An opportunity is lost because he didn’t understand womanese, and didn’t read the overwhelming series of “DOWN TO FUCK” signals.

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