Imagine two different situations:

• Situation #1: immediately upon entering a restaurant, a waiter asks for you for a five dollar tip. “Get the fuck outta here” would be your initial response.

• Situation #2: a waiter provides stellar prompt service throughout your meal - ensuring that you’re glass of orange juice is always filled, there are plenty of napkins, there are lots of extra condiments, you have a wide selection of bagels - and then after the meal is over, the waiter requests a five dollar tip. The latter situation is more likely to get compliance because value was given upfront for free, and then value was requested secondly.

Implement the Principle of Reciprocity

Women are more likely to give value when free value has already been given to them. Hence, give emotional and conversation value FIRST. Request emotional and conversational value SECOND.

Implement the Principle of Mirroring

What you put into an interaction is what you will get out of it because women will mirror your behavioral patterns. Put into a relationship the kinds of things that you would like to get out of a relationship.

This concept is relevant in having conversations with women:

• If you want a woman to invest, be a shinning example for her to role model after.

• If you want a woman to entertain you (and give value) when it’s her turn to talk, lead by example and say something that is entertaining (and value-giving) to her when you are talking.

Showcase the proper model of giving value, so that a woman will reciprocate by giving the same type of value that you gave her.

Share details about your life. Talk about exciting and funny things that are currently happening in your life. Explain interesting pieces of information that you have recently learned yourself.

Ask yourself:

• What is a project that I’m working on right now that I’m passionate about?

• What is something extraordinary that recently happened to me?

• What is something new that I learned recently that completely changed my perspective on the world?

Discover the answers to these questions and then share them boldly. This will encourage her to share as well because of the effect of reciprocity and mirroring. A conversation will ensue.

SOCIAL LEARNING THEORY:

Share something personal about your life but make sure that it is amusing and has a funny/bold ending to it. By sharing something about your life, you are inviting her to share something about her life too. After all, according to American-Canadian psychologist Albert Bandura people learn best by role-modeling after observed behaviors. A woman is more likely to learn by seeing a demonstration of proper behavior than she is by listening to an explanation of proper behavior.

On an advanced note, sometimes you want to give sarcastic and evasive answers to women to encourage them to prod more and to spike intrigue by appearing more mysterious (See Law #2...)

I often get asked "Hey, which book do you recommend reading?" It's a series of MUST-READ books. Go through them in this particular order:

First "Conversation Casanova Mastery" to teach you how to quickly master the skills of seductive conversation and flirting with women.
Second, "The Sexcalation Method" will teach you a step-by-step gameplan for getting to sex FAST. The seduction techniques that you'll learn are ones you'll find yourself using time and time again.
Third, "Womanese 101" will teach you how to PASS ANY SHIT TEST that a woman throws at you.

The books are now available as audiobooks in the ultimate 3-in-1 bundle.

They are now at a special 50% OFF during holidays. Merry Christmas!

Click Here to Get the Books at 50% OFF under Xmas SALE

🚨 FLASH BLACK FRIDAY SALE - 80% OFF FOR 24 HOURS ONLY! 🚨

The #1 Law of Becoming a High-Value Man

Let's GO 2025!!!

🚨 FLASH BLACK FRIDAY SALE - 80% OFF FOR 24 HOURS ONLY! 🚨

my account is being deleted

See all posts from Seduction IQ