If you throw a frog into a boiling tea pot, it will jump off. But if you gently put a frog into a warm tea pot and slowly increase the temperature then it will eventually burn to death. Women are similar in this regard; don’t come on too strong and get blown-out. Test the waters. Gauge her eagerness. If you see highly receptive body-language, then start escalating at a reasonable pace at high points in the interaction and with time you will eventually get everything.

In this game, rejection is very common - so having thick skin is paramount. Just like there is a large % of women who you wouldn’t want to fuck, so too women view a large % of men as un-fuckable.

Keep in mind that even 99 woman rejected you, but the final 100th turned out to be the one, then it was all worth it in the end - and you had 99 opportunities to sharpen your skills to be ready for the woman who is worthy. Approaching is simply a matter of finding out if a woman has a good taste. Regardless if you get the girl or not, you still benefited by having some time to practice your conversation skills on her.

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What is interesting to you may be boring to others.

Further, what is interesting to one woman may be boring to another. This is why taking in real-time social feedback and calibrating accordingly is of paramount importance. Without reading body-language, you are essentially playing chess blindfold and hoping that a cookie-cutter plan will work on everyone in all situations.

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Let’s apply the same concept to the business field…

Gauging is relevant to the business field as well.

It does not matter what your opinion is about a product. It does not matter what your dad says about it. The only thing that matters is how the marketplace responds. Let the numbers do the talking.

Sometimes you’ll see a product that you think is complete shit. You wonder to yourself “Why the fuck would I bother listing this on eBay (to dropship from Amazon, Sears, Kmart, HomeDepot, or Walmart) if it’s worse than human feces? I would NEVER buy this in a million years?” Yet, eBay Sold Listings reveal that it’s selling like hot-cakes.

Something that is boring to you may be wildly entertaining to women, and vice-versa.

This was an excerpt from Cory Smith's Conversation Casanova Mastery.

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