If you find that you have difficulty keeping a conversation going then it's because of:

• social inhibitions,

• nervousness,

• insecurities, and

• filtering yourself.

You don't run out of things to say with your close friends because you are FEARLESS and SPEAK YOUR MIND FREELY.

Have you noticed then when you are with your bros then you always have something to say? When you are with these close friends, you don’t panic, or think “Oh my gosh, I don’t know what to say next! I AM FUCKED.” The right things to say just come to you. Why is that? It is because…

Always having something to say comes from a being in a resourceful emotional state.

Repeat.

Always having something to say comes from a being in a resourceful emotional state.

Again!

Always having something to say comes from a being in a resourceful emotional state.

This “talkative state” is a certain state of mind that is conductive to having something to talk about. It is “BEING IN THE ZONE”. When you are in this “FLOW STATE”, you are ON-POINT and the right things to say come to you naturally.

Good game comes from learning how to leave non-resourceful emotional states (such as anxiety, nervousness, fearfulness, panic, stress, tension, being overly self-conscious, being self-filtering and self-judgmental), and…

ENTER ON COMMAND into a resourceful emotional state (100% in control of yourself, calm as an unmoving mountain, fearless like a lion, empowered, energized, and inspired).

When you are with your male friends, you are in a relaxed empowered emotional state. Apply the same to women. Assume familiarity. Treat her as if you’ve known her your entire life. The added benefit of this is that by assuming rapport, you create rapport. This is how women come to feel “it’s as if I have known him forever.”

When you treat a woman as if you’ve known her for years, then it will naturally make you feel relaxed enough to speak your mind freely. When you are in this relaxed flow-state, you will always have something to say to keep the conversation going, and the interaction alive. Women feel what you feel; when you’re relaxed and comfortable talking to her, she will mirror that contagious emotional state and behavioral patterns.

Knowing what to say is based on having the right emotional state.

In contrast, being in a nervous state of mind fucks guys up because anxiety shuts down the brain. Being nervous leads to the mind going blank, and lacking the ability to come up with interesting/emotionally-engaging things to say on the spot.

Being fearless and in a “talkative state” puts someone into THE ZONE where the right things to say naturally come up. Strong conversation game comes from.....

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