The more you touch a woman’s body (in the right way), the more oxytocin is released, and the faster she will become physically addicted to your touch. It’s important that you touch her body in the right way for this to occur.

• Don’t touch her body in a way that breaks her comfort threshold. Calibrate.

• Don’t touch her body in an insecure manner that conveys doubt in what you’re doing. Have courage.

• Don’t bring attention to your touches during the social touches. Distract her.

• Don’t go for too much, too soon. Pace yourself.

• Don’t play the game blindly and ignore her body-language during the physical escalation process. Read her reactions.

• Don’t go for heavy escalation in a public place because that signals to women you’re a guy who just doesn’t “get it”. Aim for isolation.

• Don’t fail to continuously escalate the level of physical touching. Always move forward.

• Don’t expect a woman to initiate the touching and lead the interaction towards sex. Own your masculinity.

• Don’t touch a woman’s body during moments when she is upset, or angry. The aim is to associate your touch with positive emotions. Anchor yourself.

THE CORE OF WHAT MAKES THE SEXCALATION METHOD WORK IS PULLING BACK IN THE RIGHT WAY.

• Start with light physical escalation known as Social Touch (using combination of techniques such as micro-escalation, bullshit baffles brains, leveraging social convention, and plausible deniability).

• Touch early - even within the first 3 seconds of meeting her - to establish the frame that you’re a touchy guy.

• Start subtle. The very first touch can be quite subtle and/or “accidental”, but you build from there based on her reactions (e.g. green, yellow, or red).

• Touch frequently. Have her become hooked to that level of touching (simply by touching often and letting oxytocin do the work for you).

• Give tons of value. Be fun to be with by giving emotional value, intrigue and having strong conversation skills. I recommend reading my other books “Conversation Casanova Mastery” and “Womenese 101”.

• Then proceed with heavy escalation.

Following your lead should be more emotionally enticing than being bored half to death by not following your lead. Let me break it down to you, my dear son; create the conditions where doing what you want is more enjoyable than NOT doing what you want.

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