Technique #27: The Attention Snap

The attention snap is a very important part of the opener. Sometimes girls will pretend that they didn't hear anything/didn't notice you because they are afraid of being stuck in boring conversations with guys of low social status. In certain communities, women are constantly being hit up by random low status guys and they have developed certain “pretend like I don’t hear anything” defense systems to avoid these losers. This issue is fixed by the attention snap and being clever.

THE ART OF THE ATTENTION SNAP

• Be in her visual line of sight.

• Get physically in-front of her.

• Get eye-contact.

• Command her attention with a VERY DOMINANT “hey!”

Once she notices you, move on to the ice-breaker opening line.

THE ART OF THE FLIP

• “Which direction is the nearest library?”

• “Actually I don’t care about that. You’re cute and I wanted to meet you.”

LAW #27: DON’T BE A PUSSY. CAPTURE HER ATTENTION LIKE A POLICE OFFICER.

Pickup is like sales. You're selling the concept of her being with you. To do that: you have invade a woman’s radar. That is done by “BLASTING IN” - not by humbly knocking on a door asking for permission to talk to.

Don’t ask “Hey, is it okay if I talk to you?” Don’t even imply this frame with submissive body-language. Just fucking talk to her. Open like the Kool Aid man. He doesn’t ask for permission by knocking on a door; he smashes through the wall and gives value.

• Get her attention.

• Differentiate yourself quickly from the average guy.

• Give tons of value to spark attraction.

• Sustain attention and her interest.

• Always be closing.

• Leave her wanting more.

First get her attention; then deliver the opening line. High status men don’t talk to women who aren’t paying attention to them, or looking in the opposite direction. If a woman who you are in a relationship with does this, respond with “Look at me.” High-status men expect to be treated with respect.

When a woman treats you with respect, she becomes more attracted to you in the process. In contrast, if you allow a woman to treat you like a doormat, her....

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