Technique #11: The Pattern Disrupt

Letting a woman steer the reigns of a conversation and social interaction is just plain STUPID because I assure you that women often do not have a sexuality on their agenda. You must take control and lead things to seduction or nothing may occur but wasted time. DOMINATE THE CONVERSATION.

Not to mention, that answering boring interview questions creates BOREDOM FOR HER. She starts a boring topic of conversation, you respond with a boring answer, she gets bored and then she leaves. Instead of playing along, answer the question that you WISH SHE WOULD HAVE ASKED.

One of the principles of female psychology is that when women talk to men, they often don't have a sexual agenda in mind and if you let her control the conversation then it usually won't lead to sex. This is why you cannot let her lead; YOU MUST SEIZE THE REIGNS OF CONTROL.

Don't let her control the reigns of the conversation. YOU take CONTROL. Lead the conversation towards a place of mutual seduction. Don't let girls trap you into boring, logical conversations that lead to NOWHERE.

Pattern disrupt her self-sabotage narratives. Alphas interrupt boring conversations or other threads that they don't want to engage in. If she starts talking about boring things and boring herself OR if she talks about sad things then INTERRUPT HER and CHANGE THE SUBJECT.

Don't answer her boring questions with logical boring answers. Respond sarcastically or with humor. This is far more entertaining than giving dull facts. Nice conversation is BORING.

Do not allow yourself to be associated with boredom or negative emotions. Be associated with excitement & positive emotions.

You'll get more out of life if you stopped being a pussy, beta male, and started developing courage and TAKING CHARGE. Beta males are passive. Alpha males TAKE CHARGE OF SOCIAL AND SEXUALLY CHARGED SITUATIONS.

Don't live constantly reacting to things and to women. Live proactively. Don't play the game by her rules. HIJACK CONTROL. You deal the cards that she plays by. SHE ENTERS YOUR WORLD ON YOUR TERMS.

START CONVERSATIONS WITH DOMINANCE.

In NYC, if you try to start a conversation from a nervous, shy and submissive frame of mind then girls will often just ignore you entirely or pretend they didn’t notice. Don’t believe me? Try it. Let the lack of results speak for themselves.

Ideally you should start a conversation with a girl with:

• - SUPREME BULLETPROOF CONFIDENCE,

• - powerful body-language,

• - unshakeable frame,

• - dominant frame of mind that assumes authority,

• - coming from a feel-good place inside.

• - approach with a full cup - not from a needy, approval-seeking and reaction-seeking position.

Lonely women are lonely because of strong self-sabotage mechanisms. As a seducer who may encounter virgins, feminists or these type of women, instead of falling into a woman’s frame and doing what she wants: have the stronger frame and lead. Instead of playing by her self-sabotage rules and reacting to her, you set the seductive rules and have her react to you.

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